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15 more tasks I have to do in my apartment

Honestly, just using this to make a chore list.  Take out trash Wash dishes Do laundry Sweep Clean floors Dust Sort things to give away Take photos of things to give away Post things to give away on Buy Nothing Make a list of things to buy for the apartment Look through my books and see which are mis-shelved Get rid of cords I don't need Tidy my windowsills Find art to fill some gaps Select new photos for my photo walls (Prompt by me) "A messy room" by Amanda .  Attribution 2.0 Generic .
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Thoughts on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way season 6, episode 21

Time for the first part of the tell all!  So Meitalia is in the US Wait did I forget Joanne was a psychic? So Sean is in the US too Oop Corona is holding back Uhhh Sarper and Shekinah are just eating butter??? Wait Statler and Dempsey are not joining the tell all??? Sow will Shekinah and Sarper be on a season of the regular 90 Day ? Josh can't keep his story straight So glad Corona is back in school Gah Sarper is saying scary stuff JAMES! GROSS! So I do agree that privacy is important, but Sarper sucks Wait friends send each other porn? That's a thing? PEOPLE CAN HAVE FRIENDS Okay Shekinah is not perfect, but Sarper is also toxic Is Shekinah wearing color contacts again? Oof Josh sounds like a bad dude What are the ups, Josh? I don't like this blaming of Lily Angel is so honest Shekinah is rude Meitalia and James should break up Well someone was bound to make a COVID joke about Corona's name Ingi walking off is such a tell all classic (despite Shaun saying it's neve

15 things I want to give away

I know it's shopping season, but that also means I need to get rid of some things. Succulent propagations Other plant propagations Pair of chub rub shorts Books Tote bags Plates Glasses Maybe some stuffed animals Maybe a doll Pillows Towels More clothes Probably some unopened toiletries  Probably some jewelry Probably some wall art (Prompt by me)

Thoughts on 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 7, episode 12

Time for some fateful meetings. Great, I did not need to know these details, Sunny and Veah I guess we're gonna meet Rory So Joe just overslept? SIGH YOU DIDN'T EVEN START PACKING YET, JOE??? Yes, Joe, bring the kimono Shouldn't Ingrid's kids get in the back? So Ingrid's parents want Ingrid back with her ex I'm so glad that Ingrid asked for her own room Vanja...it might be time to cut your losses and just have a fun vacation sans Božo How are we not done with Rayne and Chidi yet? Rayne is wild Ugh, Loren Loren, how do you know what's Filipino-y? Loren, don't say "regular women" as a contrast to transwomen So Joe made it...not really surprised as this show loves to psych us out Wait Magda's dog bit her ex's penis? So Magda moves quick and has earned trust issues, huh? So while I appreciate Božo being honest, I think he could be more tactful I love that they arranged Božo's friends by height Ingrid...dump this man FAITH! LOREN IS NOT

15 tips to finding volunteering opportunities

This is in large part to help me brainstorm. Ask at your local hospital (they often need volunteers for various things) Ask at your local retirement home (they often need volunteers for various things) Ask at your work (some places have structured opportunities already) Ask your friends how they volunteer Ask your local scout troop if they need volunteers Craft a fundraiser around a cause you believe in (this could even be a food drive at work or it could be a virtual fundraiser) Explore options from schools you went to Find community organizations and see if they need anything Google local volunteer fairs Google organizations you believe in and explore what they need Google your local parks' organizations If you have a house of worship, ask there Think about what skills you have to contribute to an organization and look for opportunities that align with those Think about what you are most passionate about and find opportunities that align with your passions Think about your schedu

Old works, number 19: Hold Your Breath

I wrote this piece for AP Lang and Comp in fall of 2009.  The child stared out the foggy car window into the night watching, waiting, knowing what came next down the drizzly road.  Then it came into view.  The child looked at the iron gates and shuddered; the child did not like graveyards. As the car drew closer the child’s little sister was already taking in a deep breath of the car air.  The child’s older brother was driving the car, he leaned his head out the window and took a deep breath and then let it leave him slowly.  He looked into the back seat and saw the little girl taking in her deep breaths, shook his head, and muttered something that sounded like childish.  The child decided then that his example of approaching the graveyard was best. The car pulled to a stop at gleaming, glaring, red light; once it turned green they would be at the graveyard.  The child sat in the back seat looking into the light as if into the eyes of the wise.  The light seemed to soften as the child

15 quotes helping me right now

I'm sure you have some too, feel free to share! "If they don’t give you a seat at the table, bring a folding chair."--Shirley Chisholm "Let this radicalize you rather than lead to despair."--Mariame Kaba "If you're going through hell, keep going."--Winston Churchill (allegedly) "Frodo: I can't do this, Sam. Sam: I know. It's all wrong. By rights we shouldn't even be here. But we are. It's like in the great stories, Mr. Frodo. The ones that really mattered. Full of darkness, and danger, they were. And sometimes you didn't want to know the end, because how could the end be happy? How could the world go back to the way it was when so much bad had happened? But in the end, it's only a passing thing, this shadow. Even darkness must pass. A new day will come. And when the sun shines, it'll shine out the clearer. Those were the stories that stayed with you. That meant something. Even if you were too small to understand why