Yes, this Saturday (March 21st) will be the 1 year anniversary of my dad's passing. It simultaneously feels impossible that it's only been a year and that a year has passed already. In preparation for both the day and the days after, here are some ways you can help support me (if you have the time, energy, and/or resources to do so).
- Meet up with me in person (I believe on Saturday I am getting brunch with at least one friend and dinner with several)
- Initiate conversation with me via text, message, or call (but please don't call out of the blue--this stressed me out for a reason I can't identify last time I asked for support)
- Provide me with food (gift card, cooking, reimbursing for takeout, going out with me, etc.)
- Help me with some chores
- Watch reality TV with me or just let me rant about it to you when I need a distraction
- Hug me
- Send me mail
- Give me a safe space to cry
- Be understanding when I'm not reaching out as much or am a bit distant even when we're in person
- Brush and/or braid my hair
- Scratch and/or massage my back
- Listen to me talk about my dad (the good, the bad, and the ugly)
- Look through photos of my dad with me
- Keep reaching out even as time goes on (I have a fear that people are going to forget)
- If you want to get me a thing, get in touch! I have a variety of things I want from small and silly games to larger furniture (if you want it to be a surprise--flowers and scented candles are always welcome)
(Prompt by me)
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