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15 ways to show love based on the 5 love languages

Find out your love language here! Mine are (Acts of Service 40%; Receiving Gifts 30%; Words of Affirmation 13%; Quality Time 13%; Physical Touch 3%)

  1. Compliment your loved one (Words of affirmation)
  2. Tell your loved one you appreciate them (Words of affirmation)
  3. Tell your loved one you're proud of them (Words of affirmation)
  4. Plan a date/hang out (Quality time)
  5. Schedule a phone/video call (Quality time)
  6. Make sure you're spending time with your loved one, even if it's doing nothing (Quality time)
  7. Buy flowers for your loved one (Giving gifts)
  8. Buy that thing that reminds you of your loved one and give it to them (Giving gifts)
  9. Plan a thoughtful gift (Giving gifts)
  10. Cook your loved one dinner (Acts of service)
  11. Ask what tasks your loved one needs help with and then help with them (Acts of service)
  12. Take care of the dishes/trash (Acts of service)
  13. Give a hug (Physical touch)
  14. Give a massage (Physical touch)
  15. Play with your loved one's hair (Physical touch)

(Prompt by me)

The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman, Northfield Publishing. Cover source.


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