15 things I sometimes tell myself I can't do

Original prompt: Do you ever tell yourself you can't do something? What is it and why? 

1. Lose weight
2. Change my relationship with food
3. Move through depression
4. Dance
5. Sing
6. Act
7. Find a loving romantic relationship
8. Be pretty
9. Work somewhere I love
10. Love my body
11. Do makeup flatteringly
12. Figure out how to take better care of my hair
13. Maintain my apartment better
14. Publish a book
15. Have the life I want

(Prompt provided by Amelia Sacco)

"Sadness - Tristesse" by Yannick - L'oeil du nord