Disclaimer: I've never lived with a partner, so this is my inexperienced opinion.
- Why do you want to live together?
- What are your expectations for moving in together?
- How will you consciously prioritize your relationship after moving in?
- Whose place will you move into or will you get a new place?
- How much do your schedules clash?
- Do any of your habits clash?
- Have you considered a roommate contract (basically setting up rules for living together)?
- Who is responsible for what and when (both in terms of chores and bills)?
- Who will have spare keys to the apartment?
- What from where you live now is going to come with (for all parties involved)?
- Have you considered scheduling time to each be alone in the space (alone time is important)?
- Will you each have space that is just yours?
- If you break up, who moves out?
- What is this a step towards (or is it the final step)?
- Have you considered relationship counseling just to make this adjustment (kind of like pre-marital counseling)?
(Prompt by Kimisha Cassidy)
"Moving boxes and furniture" by Emma London
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