15 things I'm thankful for in 2020

Now I know it's hard to think of things this year, but dig deep!

My family. They have been helping carry me through this rough year
My friends. Ditto on the family note
Hoban and Velma. I know I lost Velma, but I'm still so thankful for all she did for me
Photographs. They help remind me of happy times when happy times seem far away
Long baths. They help calm me on the roughest of days
Living near a large park. Not only is this good for my dog, it's nice to walk among trees with ease
Digital communication. Where would I have been this year without it?
Quaran-hobbies. Helps give a positive touch to this year, plus I like to think it brings some small joy to the world
My favorite podcasts. They keep me company on long work days and long walks
The 90 Day franchise. Yes, it is insane but it helps me de-stress and I love talking about it with friends
The Chicks's Gaslighter album. This album helped me feel so much this year
Al anon. This support group helps me in ways my other support systems can't
Medication. I wouldn't be doing nearly as well without my meds
My therapist and psychiatrist. Again, a part of my support system that does something the rest can't
This blog. While I'm still having trouble writing, this blog certainly helps

(Prompt by me)

"Happy Thanksgiving!" by Barbara am Ende

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