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15 things that make me unhappy in relationships

This includes all kinds of relationships: family, friends, romantic, work, etc. Original prompt: When are you most unhappy in relationships? 

  1. My boundaries not being respected
  2. Not being heard
  3. My effort not being returned
  4. Communicating important information over text
  5. My anxiety flaring up around things they said
  6. Not following requests I've specifically made and they agreed to
  7. My negative self-talk flaring up around things they said
  8. Not being asked how I'm doing
  9. My body image issues flaring up around things they said
  10. Making things about them when I need the support (and done so in a way that's not sharing an experience)
  11. My boundaries not being asked about
  12. Them making hurtful assumptions about me
  13. Being objectified
  14. Feeling like I can't share things (whether because of internal or external issues)
  15. Being negged

(Prompt provided by Amelia Sacco)

"Desconfianza / Mistrust" by Hernán Piñera. Attribution-ShareAlike 2.0 Generic (CC BY-SA 2.0).


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