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15 thoughts on the 29th season of The Bachelor post-finale

Just some random thoughts. 

  1. I have always wondered who gets to be in the crowd at the "After the Final Rose" (besides the returning contestants)
  2. I wish Grant's ultimate pick hadn't been spoiled for me (especially because I thought he'd pick Litia both before the episode and during the episode)
  3. The Grant and his dad stuff hit me hard
  4. Of course it was raining when Grant was agonizing over his decision
  5. I loved Litia standing up for herself
  6. Oof seems like Grant did Litia dirty
  7. Honestly, as did the editors as I feel like they suggested it was going to be Litia too
  8. Did Grant really only pick Juliana because Litia wanted kids in 2 years and he wanted them in 3?
  9. For the record, I do really like Juliana as well
  10. It hit me weird that Grant proposed with the ring that editing had associated with Litia
  11. Golden Bachelor in Paradise will be wild (I wonder if there will be cross-generational pairs--it wasn't clear to me how this was going to work)
  12. Jesse is a pretty good host
  13. Jenn's absence was noticeable (not that I blame her)
  14. I wonder if Juliana and Grant will make it (I have hope)
  15. I hope The Bachelorette comes back (and it's either Chloie or Alexe)

(Prompt by me)

"Promotional poster for season 29 of The Bachelor," ABC

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